10 December 2010

Review of Gratitude

The month of  November always brings with it falling leaves, football, turkey, family, and a feelings of gratitude, but this year added to the theme and essence of the autumn month was Facebook. Being au courant of all things hip in social media, and awesome in general, I decided to join the trend of using my social media updates to express my gratitude for something each day of the month. I'm not sure where the idea incubated before going viral, but my inside anonymous source-of-a-wife told me she was going to be doing it, so naturally I jumped on the bandwagon.

Ironically enough I am grateful I participated in the "thanksperiment." As I sat down with my Macbook each night to contemplate what I wanted to publicly and permanently publish to the world, I was forced to be engaged in a personal reflection of what I have in my life and the blessings I have been given. Always knowing that whatever I resolved on expressing would become communal, it was interesting how I sometimes took time to consider every word and phrase I used (the 140 character limit on Twitter had a bit of a influence on this), and other times I just typed the first thing that came to mind. I struggled some days on deciding what to publicly express gratitude for. Some days I posted things that were on my mind due to the events of that day on the calendar, such as Veterans day or my mother's birthday.

Here is a recap of my "Thirty days of Thanksgiving:"

Day 1: Grateful for good friends. 

Day 2: Grateful for a country that allows me to express my opinion, or keep quiet. 

Day 3: Grateful for the 80's. 

Day 4: Grateful for $0.49 Gatorade at Smith's.

Day 5: Grateful for Friday nights with his wife (and the Muppets).

Day 6: Grateful for a place to live and a car to drive, and a wife that loves to clean them with me.

Day 7: Thankful for April 2003-May 2005 and my California family. I miss you all.

Day 8: Thankful for a clear mind, eyes that see, ears that hear, lips that speak, shoulders that bear burdens, and legs that run and walk.

Day 9: Grateful for LDS Institutes of Religion and their willingness to take you back after a 5 year absence.

Day 10: Grateful for honest people and honest businesses that don't have to stoop to illegal action to get me to notice them. 

Day 11: Thankful for Ronald Laursen, Jason Laursen, Michael Wagstaff and the many other Veterans for their patriotism, love of country, and willingness to serve and sacrifice for the common good. http://ow.ly/38Aky http://ow.ly/38AlD 

Day 12: Thankful for teachers. 

Day 13: Thankful for weekends. 

Day 14: Grateful for Sundays including Stake Conference, trying & liking new meal w/wife, Dolphins winning, and the Suns beating the Lakers. 

Day 15: Thankful for running water and a bed to sleep in.

Missed Day 16 (Grateful for a break from technology)   

Day 17: Thankful for memories and the ability to make more. 

Day 18: Thankful to be employed and to have great co-workers.
My older brother, Jason hacked his wife's Facebook account and added this to Day 18:"Day 18 thankfull that older brother dosnt give me the beating that his team will give mine later tonight."  

Day 19: Grateful for High School Athletics and always proud to be a Mustang. 

Day 20: Thankful for not having to live each day in fear and terror, but wish the rest of the world could as well. 

Day 21: Thankful for hard working parents and brothers to look up to. 

Day 22: Thankful for December 12th, October 14th, January 4th, December 22nd, March 4th, April 9th, and March 9th.

Day 23: Thankful for those that risk their lives to serve others. Armed forces, firefighters, police, bus/plow drivers, sanitation workers...kindergarten teachers...lunch ladies... 

Day 24: Grateful for second chances, forgiveness, and the ability to change. http://ow.ly/3fioZ 

Day 25:Thankful for a loving Father in Heaven and His Son who have blessed me with a beautiful life and eternal potential http://ow.ly/3fGb9. Happy Thanksgiving everyone. 

Day 26: Thankful that I get to wake up and fall asleep to the most beautiful face in the world! Grateful for the perfect wife. http://ow.ly/i/5QYL 

Day 27: Thankful for good books, movies, TV shows, music and entertainment. 

Day 28: Grateful for agency, the opportunity to choose and act for myself, and for the responsibility to be accountable for those choices and actions. 

Day 29: Thankful for my mom. Happy Birthday! http://ow.ly/i/5VQN 

Day 30: Thankful for my wife Vicki. For her patience, beauty, intelligence, and love of sports. Thank you for gambling on me.

I have a lot to be thankful for.